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There have been so many tragic events the past few weeks.  My friend's very close friend lost her husband.  They have a second grader and a three year old.  Another friend's close friend died, leaving behind a wife and a kindergartener.  I cannot stop thinking about those children.  That's like Millie and Georgia, and Murphy.  Those kids are never to see their fathers again. It breaks my heart to think of the devastation.  I couldn't fathom.

In actuality, the sad events have made me realize how fortunate I am to have the most amazing, healthy, caring, loving, supportive, hard-working husband.  I feel like the events have forced me to really recognize the fact that can change in the blink of an eye.  I have felt the need to graciously express my love for Trevor and the kids.  It's like my favorite quote, "They may not remember what you said, but they will remember how you made them feel."  I want my husband and my kids to feel the most love and affection and positivity as possible.  I love my family with all my heart.  All my soul.  We are so complete.  It would be easy for me to live in fear that something would separate the unity that is our family.  So, I'm focusing on what we have.  Which makes me smile.  And want to cry.  All at the same time.

Hug your kids.  Kiss your husband.  Be happy as you grow together.